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First, let’s define what I mean by a balanced life. It doesn’t mean spending an equal amount of time at work and at home. Sometimes, doing that can be impossible. What I mean by balanced life is having every part of your life under control. Why is this important?
For my example, I’m going to use the corporate world. Most big companies are broken up into different departments. There’s accounting, human resources, legal, and so on. When all these departments work efficiently together, then they produce impressive results. It leads the company to strong growth and success.
Your life is the same way. Instead of departments you have a number of areas in your life.You have the finances, career, family, health and so on. To lead yourself to strong growth and success, you need to make sure that all these areas are under control. When you are successful in all these areas, then your WHOLE life is a success. If you’re struggling in one area, then that struggle might bleed over to another area of your life and ruin it.
Let me demonstrate to you what I mean. There was a survey done a while back that showed 57% of divorces were because of financial reasons. Money problems (one area of your life) led to relationship problems(another area of your life). Also, take this example. You have a huge fight with your husband or wife tonight and you two stay up all night arguing. The next morning you have work and are feeling exhausted at perform poorly at work. See how relationship problems affect your career?
To have your whole life be a success, you need to balance things out. When you balance your life, things run smooth. You’re able to look at every area of your life and be happy about it. This leads to more and more success. It’s a snowball effect. It keeps building and building.
Make a list of every area in your life and make a plan to get everything under control. If you’re having money problems, figure out a way to make more money or save more money. If you’re out of shape, put on some running shoes and get to work. If your relationships a disaster, sit down and talk about where things are going and what you two need to do to fix it.
A balanced life brings more success. There is no doubt about it. Don’t think you can be truly happy being successful in only one area of your life. If you do that, that happiness won’t last. It will be a feeling that comes and goes and is hard to keep around forever. When your whole life is a success, then happiness comes and stays with you. It becomes a state of mind rather than just an emotion.
